Game and truth

Should you lie about who you are? No.

You are who you are, and you want people to like you for who you are.

Be proud of everything you do, or don't do it. (If you're a Christian and therefore have trouble with this, getting your brain checked should be your first concern, not improving your game).

If you don't like who you are, change it. Whatever you don't like about yourself, change it.

But integrate what you like in others. If you don't like to hear other people's complaints or bragging, chances are they won't enjoy hearing yours.

DHVs and threads

You have to DHV, but embed it in an interesting way, as you would like to hear it were it someone else. You have to have interesting threads or routines, but they can be stuff that actually interests you. How would you like to be approached? Out of the blue deep shit questions. But embed it in an interesting way. Try the feeling angle.

Cope with imperfect information. Accept the fact that people are not aware of your qualities and your personality. You have to convey it to them (DHV), but remember that the conveying itself is part of it.

Reality

Nature, to be mastered, must be obeyed. -Francis Bacon-

Know your reality and accept it. If you deny reality it will hurt you. Don't weep over it. If you don't like something about reality, ignore it or change it.

Know your EP theory, but don't fall slave to it. Natural doesn't mean good. Mismatch doesn't mean we have to live like it were the Stone Age. Or eat that way, for that matter.

Know how fucked up the world is, understand the reasons. Change it if you can - but enjoy how great life can nevertheless be.

Like what you do and do what you like.

Embrace your feminine side to understand the way women think and feel, and what they expect of men. Then be the man you would want to have if you were a woman.

2011-07-02